Is He with Me for the Right Reasons?
Q: I have been with this guy for about three months….When we used to talk, we would laugh and talk seriously, but now it’s all about sex….
Boys
19 and Single
Q: I am (sadly) 19 and have never been in love…or on a date…or anything. A friend is about to confess he likes me and wants to go out. Should I date him and get the experience?
Ex Sending Mixed Signals
Q: My boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me last week. Lately he’s been texting me. It kind of seems like he wants to get back together… I’m so confused. Please help!
Breaking Physical Boundaries
Q: My boyfriend and I set clear boundaries, but over the last week we went past those boundaries, so now we’ve set even stricter ones. I’m scared that we’re going to go farther again….
Should Love Be Blind to Denominations?
Q: I like a guy, but he’s Methodist and I’m Baptist. We haven’t really talked about religion much, except that we are both Christians. Do denomations make a difference? And what are the real differences between Methodists and Baptists?
Am I Crazy for Ending a 3-Year Relationship?
Q: My boyfriend of three years supports my faith and has come to church occasionally, but I really feel the need to marry a godly man. With this said, I made a really difficult decision to end things….Have you ever experienced a situation like this? Have any encouraging words that I made the right decision?
Take the Boy or Save the Friendship?
Q: There’s this boy in the school who I really, REALLY like, and he really likes me too, and we both want to go out. Here’s the problem: One of my new friends used to go out with him and still really likes him, and pretty much hates any other girl that likes him….
Should I Ask Him Out? (The Catch: He’s Taken)
Q: The guy I like has a girlfriend, but she lives far away and doesn’t even go to our school. I want to ask him out, but I am afraid he will say no. What should I do?
Crush Triangle Trouble!
Q: I’ve known a boy that a like for about five years. The problem is that he might like friend number one, and friend number one doesn’t like him. Then friend number two likes him, but…
Should I Ask If He’s a Christian?
Q. This boy I like knows I like him, and we talk a lot. But I don’t know if he’s a Christian. How do I ask him without ruining what I have with him?
Busting the Boyfriend-less Blues
Q: I came to your “Busting the Boyfriend-less Blues” seminar at Hume Lake, but I didn’t have a pen. Could you post the verses you used–especially that one you paraphrased at the end?
Should I Tell My Crush I’m Into Him?
Q: I recently developed a crush on this guy I’ve known for 12 years—basically ever since elementary school….Should I tell him my feelings?
Great Guy, but Not a Christian
Q: There’s this really great guy that has been showing interest in me. He’s a really, really great guy. The only thing is that he isn’t a Christian. What should I do?
A Great “Catch”
Q: How do you get a guy to notice you? And how can you get him to like you?
Is “It” Okay If I Love Him?
Q: I need some advice from a Christian woman’s point of view. Do you think it’s wrong for me to be sexually physical with a guy that I really and truly think I love? The catch is that I have only been with him for 2 months. What’s your opinion?
Relationship Now, Baggage Later?
Q: I’ve been dating this guy for about 3 1/2 months. I really really like him, but… I’ve been wondering how this relationship with him could be compromising my future marriage and…
He Wants More Than a Dance
Q: I am going to formal with a junior and I am a freshman. I think he is cool, but he told my brother that he wanted to do stuff with me that I don’t want to do.
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