My Ex Is Fine, but I’m Drowning!
Q: My boyfriend of six months broke up with me about two months ago, and I just can’t seem to get my life back together! …He seems just fine, which hurts worse! What should I do?
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My BF is “Spiritual But Not Religious”
Q: If I am in a relationship with a guy who is not a Christian, but he is being drawn closer to God through me, is there anything wrong with that?
No Text = Depressed
Q: I always get depressed when my crush doesn’t text me, which makes me feel too clingy and insecure….Do you have any advice that will help me from feeling this way?
Great Guy, Not a Christian
Q: There’s this really great guy that has been showing interest in me. He’s a really, really great guy. The only thing is that he isn’t a Christian. What should I do?
He Left Me, & My Heart is Ripping Apart
Q: I know that God is helping me get through the pain of my boyfriend breaking up with me. But it hurts so much—I can’t stop crying…. I started to drink, hoping the pain will go away, but my heart feels like it’s ripping apart because of him.
My Friend Stole My Crush
Q: One of my best friends just started dating the guy I like, despite of me and my feelings. I’m having a really hard time forgiving her for that!
My BF’s Depressed
Q: My bf lives far away and he has been feeling very depressed. He sleeps all day, won’t answer my video chat invites, and is always mad at people. He said he didn’t want to get me in to his problems because he doesn’t want to hurt me. What should I do?
Hard Time Saying “No”
Q: I’m a virgin and I’m going to stay that way until I get married, but lately I’m a hard time saying no. There’s a lot of pressure, when I’m with my guy I want to but I know I shouldn’t. I just want to know why it has to be so hard!
“LJBF” – in a TEXT!
Q: My boyfriend of 5 years just broke up with me. It feels like a mini end-of-the-world! He has been my best friend since I met him 7 years ago, and he broke up with me in a text. A text! I don’t understand, and my heart is breaking…
Should I Like Him?
Q. I like this guy, and I’m pretty sure that he likes me. He’s a year younger than me, and …I don’t know if I should like him or not! And if I do, should I make the first move or wait?
Should I Tell Him How I Feel?
Q: A friend convinced me to tell my crush that I like him, which I kind of regret now. He was really nice for a while, but then he started liking one of my best friends….They broke up today. Should I let him know that I still like him?
He Doesn’t Know I Exist
Q: There’s this guy at my school I like. He seems to be perfect. He’s funny and nice. He even goes to my church. The only problem is that he doesn’t know I exist. Should I keep worrying over him, or should I just move on?
God Told Him to Dump Me
Q: My boyfriend of 2 ½ years broke up with me last week. He told me that after fasting and praying, he heard the voice of God telling him to dethrone anything that was currently capturing his heart. That thing was me…
Ditching a Clingy Ex
Q. There’s this guy at my school who is insanely in love with me. You’d think that would be a good thing! But we’ve dated before and it didn’t work out. He keeps telling me how beautiful I am and always surprises me with a hug from behind in the morning. He is in my class so it’s hard to ignore him. What should I do?
Letting Go of Perfect
Q: A year ago I met an amazing guy…I was never really introduced to God as a child, but because of this guy… I started to follow Christ on my own. It’s been a year now, and I am completely infatuated with this guy…but I don’t think he feels the same way about me…
Awk-ward!
Q: I have a great boyfriend who respects me and loves me. I told him I’m not ready for sex because I’d like to stay a virgin until I’m married. He said he is perfectly fine with that… The thing is, he sometimes says things that I’m unsure about…
Feeling Pressured
Q: My boyfriend is just my type. Plus, my parents really like him and his parents really like me. But I think he wants to have sex. He said that if he ever did anything I didn’t like that I have the right to stop him, and he asked me what my limits were. But he sometimes says things that make me feel a little bit uncomfortable. What should I do?
New School Crush
Q: I’m the new girl in school and there’s this boy in my class named C. I think he might like me….
Does He Still Like Me?
Q: I broke up with my boyfriend and now he is dating my friend! Even though he is dating my friend, he still stares at me when I’m doing something (I know this because my friend told me). Does he still like me? If not why does he keep on staring at me?
Can’t Have Him (Now I Want Him)
Q: How do I get a guy back who used to be crazy about me but now has someone else in his life? …I’m very jealous and just crazy about him. We hardly talk anymore…
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