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Q: God has blessed me in my single hood but I find it difficult at times to have pure, God-honoring thoughts! It’s easy to get distracted. How do I maintain mental and emotional purity as a spiritually maturing woman?

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He’s Slipping Through My Fingers

Q: I like this Christian guy who said he likes me back, but lately he doesn’t seem to anymore. Something tells me not to give up; I don’t want to lose a good thing. But it hurts so bad to keep trying for him, not knowing if he still cares. What should I do?

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He Left Me, & My Heart is Ripping Apart

Q: I know that God is helping me get through the pain of my boyfriend breaking up with me. But it hurts so much—I can’t stop crying…. I started to drink, hoping the pain will go away, but my heart feels like it’s ripping apart because of him.

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My BF’s Depressed

Q: My bf lives far away and he has been feeling very depressed. He sleeps all day, won’t answer my video chat invites, and is always mad at people. He said he didn’t want to get me in to his problems because he doesn’t want to hurt me. What should I do?

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“LJBF” – in a TEXT!

Q: My boyfriend of 5 years just broke up with me. It feels like a mini end-of-the-world! He has been my best friend since I met him 7 years ago, and he broke up with me in a text. A text! I don’t understand, and my heart is breaking… 

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Should I Like Him?

Q. I like this guy, and I’m pretty sure that he likes me. He’s a year younger than me, and …I don’t know if I should like him or not! And if I do, should I make the first move or wait?

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He Doesn’t Know I Exist

Q: There’s this guy at my school I like. He seems to be perfect. He’s funny and nice. He even goes to my church. The only problem is that he doesn’t know I exist. Should I keep worrying over him, or should I just move on?

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God Told Him to Dump Me

Q: My boyfriend of 2 ½ years broke up with me last week. He told me that after fasting and praying, he heard the voice of God telling him to dethrone anything that was currently capturing his heart. That thing was me…

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Awk-ward!

Q: I have a great boyfriend who respects me and loves me. I told him I’m not ready for sex because I’d like to stay a virgin until I’m married. He said he is perfectly fine with that… The thing is, he sometimes says things that I’m unsure about… 

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