Pain

How Do I Stop Cutting?

Q: I started self-harming (cutting) about a year ago as a way to cope with a bunch of stuff going on in my life. I know it’s wrong, and I’m trying really hard to stop, but it’s

Read the Answer »

Is My Ex Gay?

Q: I broke up with my boyfriend because he lied and manipulated me, and would blame me for his mistakes. But looking back on our relationship, I’m beginning to wonder if he is bisexual or gay. My

Read the Answer »

He’s Slipping Through My Fingers

Q: I like this Christian guy who said he likes me back, but lately he doesn’t seem to anymore. Something tells me not to give up; I don’t want to lose a good thing. But it hurts so bad to keep trying for him, not knowing if he still cares. What should I do?

Read the Answer »

He Left Me, & My Heart is Ripping Apart

Q: I know that God is helping me get through the pain of my boyfriend breaking up with me. But it hurts so much—I can’t stop crying…. I started to drink, hoping the pain will go away, but my heart feels like it’s ripping apart because of him.

Read the Answer »

God Told Him to Dump Me

Q: My boyfriend of 2 ½ years broke up with me last week. He told me that after fasting and praying, he heard the voice of God telling him to dethrone anything that was currently capturing his heart. That thing was me…

Read the Answer »

Am I Crazy for Ending a 3-Year Relationship?

Q: My boyfriend of three years supports my faith and has come to church occasionally, but I really feel the need to marry a godly man. With this said, I made a really difficult decision to end things….Have you ever experienced a situation like this? Have any encouraging words that I made the right decision?

Read the Answer »

Get new posts, my monthly Between the Lines newsletter, be entered into giveaways, and become part of my inner circle!

Recent Posts

Popular Topics

My Heart for You

My New Book Available Now

Welcome to Life, Love and God—a place for teen girls to find answers! I’m Jessie. Consider me a spiritual “big sis”—someone who cares a ton for you and wants to help you thrive!