Pressure

Should I Wear a Bikini?

Q: I’m going on a trip to Mexico, and I know all of my friends will be wearing bikinis. I’m not sure what kind of swimsuit to wear because I want to honor God, my future husband, and my Christian brothers, but I don’t want to seem self-righteous either. Any suggestions?

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Miss Contentment

Q: Nearly all of my friends are in a relationship and keep telling me that I should be in one too. But I’m 15 and really enjoy being single. What should I tell them/do?

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Hard Time Saying “No”

Q: I’m a virgin and I’m going to stay that way until I get married, but lately I’m a hard time saying no. There’s a lot of pressure, when I’m with my guy I want to but I know I shouldn’t. I just want to know why it has to be so hard!

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Awk-ward!

Q: I have a great boyfriend who respects me and loves me. I told him I’m not ready for sex because I’d like to stay a virgin until I’m married. He said he is perfectly fine with that… The thing is, he sometimes says things that I’m unsure about… 

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Feeling Pressured

Q: My boyfriend is just my type. Plus, my parents really like him and his parents really like me. But I think he wants to have sex. He said that if he ever did anything I didn’t like that I have the right to stop him, and he asked me what my limits were. But he sometimes says things that make me feel a little bit uncomfortable. What should I do?

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No Christian Friends

Q: My friends at school are not Christians, and I feel completely alone. They are always gossiping–about each other, and things that happened at the party on the weekend, and stuff like that….

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